Tradition of wedding party in Jambi
Wedding
is a step while the people can be a soulmate. Some hometowns have differences
in process of wedding party. Muara bungo is one of regencies in Jambi province.
Muara bungo have tradition of wedding party. This is tradition process wedding
party in Muara bungo.
Prior
to application events are held, usually there will be a messenger of the men,
who will ask, or silahturahmi to her family. The enjoy will seek to know,
whether the woman was already there that apply. After that, it will be made
process on application. Application usually attend “ Tuo-tuo tengganai “ from
both sides of the family. At the time of application, the family males will
carry the customary requirements, including:
The
first was “ Antar Tando”. Ring is worn only for women, not one pair, because
the exchange will be done when the one times also new ring ceremony later. Next
clothing from of coat of women material to the contract, and the subordinate
fabric can be “ Batik or songket “. Sometimes also include slippers. Next sirih
pinang, in the form of equitment to eat betel, a betel leaf, and tobacco,
together betel placed in a special place.
The
second was application. The procession usually “ seloko-seloko ” applications
(such as unrequited rhyme) between representatives of the family first, which
immately it was asked about the meaning and purpose. Male family visit to her
family. After that, the procession of the application it self, a mounting ring
to the negotiation of the nuclear family, which talks about the continuation of
earlier application the date of the conversation, etc.
Conversation
custom made, among others: Wedding date, the wedding ceremony will be held
sepanen jagung (3 month) sepanen padi (6 months). Else customary is using a
custom pure Jambi or there is a mixture. Seserahan or hantaran is transfer the
conductivity will be given family men. Money customs, money customary have two
kind there are, customs money and money of selemak manis. Customs is money,
usually small ranging from 50-100 thousand,
while money of selemak manis fairly large, customizable with the ability
of male relatives to help shopping for a wedding reception later.
The
third was some conduction within indigenous Jambi: The contents of the room, a
bed, dresser, mattresses, bed covers, curtains for the room until, the bride makeup,
equipment materials clothing “kebaya” superiors and subordinates (2 pairs)
shoes/ slippers (2 pairs), bag (2 pcs), nightgowns (2 pairs), underwear (2
sets), long cloth ( 2 pieces), supplies worship, spices such as chili, pepper,
onions, tomatoes, salt, rice eggs, etc.
The
conclusion I think that is all my explanation about tradition wedding party in
Muara bungo, Jambi. It is very special wedding party because has differences
with wedding party in other regencies. I can not forget Muara bungo, Jambi as
my hometown forever. I love my hometown.^o^v

good story
BalasHapusdifficult steps yach,,,,, but i liked this story ^U^
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